Dec. 19th, 2011
Joy – In Suffering
It’s something we struggle with—this
whole concept of suffering. We have an ingrained worldview that
suggests suffering is only “fair” if it’s deserved. When we know
our desire is to serve God and we are still clobbered by life, we
wrestle with “why me” and “this isn’t fair” thoughts.
These are the time when I have often
found the lives of Paul and Peter to be a source of comfort. These
men served God and on a regular basis took a beating for it.
found the lives of Paul and Peter to be a source of comfort. These
men served God and on a regular basis took a beating for it.
But never, before this year, have I
ever realized that there’s someone else who we know—know it from
the very mouth of an angel—was favored by God and from the moment
of that proclamation—suffered.
ever realized that there’s someone else who we know—know it from
the very mouth of an angel—was favored by God and from the moment
of that proclamation—suffered.
Mary.
Think about her for a moment. A young
virgin with life cruising along as planned. Getting ready to marry a
great guy. Then an angel shows up and says “God thinks you’re
awesome and He’s going to give you a remarkable gift. You get to be
the mother of the Christ.”
virgin with life cruising along as planned. Getting ready to marry a
great guy. Then an angel shows up and says “God thinks you’re
awesome and He’s going to give you a remarkable gift. You get to be
the mother of the Christ.”
What the angel didn’t say? “Oh, by the
way, you’ll live the rest of your life under a cloud of scandal. And
you’ll have to flee the country in a few months. When He grows up,
He’ll traipse all over the country doing miracles. And people will
talk. Oh yes, they will talk.
way, you’ll live the rest of your life under a cloud of scandal. And
you’ll have to flee the country in a few months. When He grows up,
He’ll traipse all over the country doing miracles. And people will
talk. Oh yes, they will talk.
But none of that will compare to what’s
coming. There will be a day when you will watch Him beaten to a
bloody pulp, groan under the weight of a cross, hang from that cross,
and eventually, breathe what everyone will believe is His last
breath.”
coming. There will be a day when you will watch Him beaten to a
bloody pulp, groan under the weight of a cross, hang from that cross,
and eventually, breathe what everyone will believe is His last
breath.”
We don’t know how much Mary understood.
We know that from day one, she’d been pondering everything. The
angels, the shepherds, the star, the wise men. We know she’d been
warned, when He was only a few days old, that a sword would pierce
her soul. You can bet she never forgot those words.
We know that from day one, she’d been pondering everything. The
angels, the shepherds, the star, the wise men. We know she’d been
warned, when He was only a few days old, that a sword would pierce
her soul. You can bet she never forgot those words.
We know from the very beginning of His
public ministry that she knew He could perform miracles.
public ministry that she knew He could perform miracles.
But we don’t know how she coped. Did
she live all of His thirty-three years wondering when it would
happen? Was she ever able to look at Him—tiny baby nestled against
her, chubby toddler wrestling with His brothers, gangly teen helping
Joseph craft a table—and enjoy being His mom without wondering how
it would all end?
she live all of His thirty-three years wondering when it would
happen? Was she ever able to look at Him—tiny baby nestled against
her, chubby toddler wrestling with His brothers, gangly teen helping
Joseph craft a table—and enjoy being His mom without wondering how
it would all end?
Did she know that the end would be the
beginning?
beginning?
When she watched Him hanging there,
even if she knew He would return in three days, would it have
mattered? Would it have lessened the agony? Would if have prevented
the tears?
even if she knew He would return in three days, would it have
mattered? Would it have lessened the agony? Would if have prevented
the tears?
I don’t think so. You won’t find this
spelled out in Scripture, but my mother’s heart tells me that on the
day He died, no one hurt the way she did.
spelled out in Scripture, but my mother’s heart tells me that on the
day He died, no one hurt the way she did.
Knowing the rest of the story, we can
say it was worth it. Mary undoubtedly would agree.
say it was worth it. Mary undoubtedly would agree.
But in the moment, Mary suffered.
I wish the Bible gave a us picture of
the reunion. The joy on Mary’s face when she saw her resurrected son,
her resurrected Savior. I’m sure her tears dripped onto His
nail-scarred hands. Surely He held her close. Thanked her for being a
great mom. Assured her that it had all been part of God’s plan.
the reunion. The joy on Mary’s face when she saw her resurrected son,
her resurrected Savior. I’m sure her tears dripped onto His
nail-scarred hands. Surely He held her close. Thanked her for being a
great mom. Assured her that it had all been part of God’s plan.
Can you see it?
He’d like to do that for us as well.
When life is hard. When the loneliness
is overwhelming. When the pain won’t go away. When it’s all over.
When nothing will ever be the same.
is overwhelming. When the pain won’t go away. When it’s all over.
When nothing will ever be the same.
He is.
He knows.
His sacrifice makes Joy possible.
Continuous Joy. Even in suffering. Not because we think pain is fun.
But because we know there’s a purpose. There’s a plan.
Continuous Joy. Even in suffering. Not because we think pain is fun.
But because we know there’s a purpose. There’s a plan.
There’s a future.
He will wipe away every tear from their
eyes, and death shall be no more, neither shall there be mourning,
nor crying, nor pain anymore, for the former things have passed away.
Revelation 21:4 (ESV)
eyes, and death shall be no more, neither shall there be mourning,
nor crying, nor pain anymore, for the former things have passed away.
Revelation 21:4 (ESV)
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Profound.
Thanks for sharing so beautifully.
Kristi – Thank you! And thanks for passing it along on FB!
Lynn, great post. A reminder to us all.
I've been thinking more about Mary this year for some reason. Thank you for your input into my new image of who she is.
Christmas blessings, sweet friend…
Thanks Keiki & Vonda!
Oh Lynn, what a great post! I've read so many things about Mary, thanks for giving a frest perspective!